Sometimes you’ll fall. Make mistakes. Get hurt. The harness keeps you safe for a while. But you’ve got to take it off at some point. Test the waters. See what’s you and what’s not.
And you’ll either keep falling or stop and succeed. Get stronger.
Some things require a harness. Bad hips. Flying too high. That’s ok for a time.
But sometimes harnesses hold you back by enabling bad behavior. Laziness. Not listening.
Some things can’t be learned or recaptured. We may be past the point of recovering. Wearing the harness only delays the inevitable. You can’t move on from some things.
There are times a harness is acceptable and it can prolong some good things. Keep a love or passion alive. But sometimes you need to grow the f up and be better. Your choice.