Is there really some grave injustice going on or are you just angry you don’t get to do what you want to do?
You have the option to get pissed or to adapt. Those are your options. Especially when you’ve got people depending on you.
Does anger really do anything? What’s going to serve you best in the moment. Being a selfish baby and throwing a tantrum? Or changing your plans to accommodate the inevitable chaos of life?
You can be stubborn and keep yourself stuck. Or accept things as they are and find a new path forward.
It’s easy to think we are right and justified all the time. Harder to step back and examine if we might be overreacting and to let go.
When will we learn that letting go actually gives us more control? It frees us from holding on to all that unproductive thinking.