You’ll ask and ask and ask around. But no one will know. You’ll do research online. Forums. Chat rooms. No one will know. You’ll buy books by experts and they still won’t know.
No one knows. Because you’re looking for your answers. They can only give theirs. And that won’t work for you. There are no answers that someone else can give you that will solve your problems.
You have to figure them out on your own. And they will constantly change. What works one day will not work the next. What you plan for won’t happen. And what you don’t plan for will.
It’s maddening. But when you go looking for answers start with yourself. If you go elsewhere you’ll be disappointed and no further towards solving your problems then you were before.