No one is an expert on you. Or your kids. Or your relationships. Or your job. Or your passions.
Only you are. And that can feel very isolating sometimes.
Because no matter how much you read or who you talk to they don’t know a quarter as much as you do about your own life.
And seeking expertise can sometimes leave you disappointed and frustrated and feeling hopeless. They don’t always have the answers.
You have to become self reliant. Trust yourself and your partner. Be persistent and insistent. Grit your teeth and get through the hard stuff. Keep trying.
If you’re looking for an expert stop. You are the expert. It’s the blessing and the curse of the life you live.