I used to make flip books as a kid. Stick figures riding skate boards and doing jumps. Going up and down a ramp. Falling and getting back up. Sometimes I’d even have some words scroll across the top. They were so fun to make. Just a simple entertaining animation. I also wrote poetry. I...
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We’ve all been there. The shit hits the fan. Job. Family. Parenting. All signs pointing directly back to you. I’ve been here countless times. It has never paid off to wallow. Being fierce. Owning your failures. Working smarter. Deciding to be determined to get things done right. Listening when someone gives you good honest...
Continue readingScrap It. Start Again.
Lots of what I write isn’t worth posting. Verbose. Meandering. Nonsense. I’ve written three different posts tonight and scrapped each one. But I still did what I set out to do. I wrote today. So much of what I’m working towards with this project is to clarify my own thinking. So even if I...
Continue readingBrilliant Is Overrated
Because trying to be brilliant takes the focus away from trying to be good. And being good is where you start. Being good means you know your job and you can consistently get it done. We focus too much on the next step or the promo or the greener grass. And we miss the...
Continue readingLong Night
Sometimes you just have to celebrate that you made it through. Forget the battle. Forget the headaches. Forget the fatigue. And be glad it’s not worse. You’re all safe and sound. All in warm beds with fluffy pillows and blankets. The sound of the rain outside cloaking the night in a comforting pitter patter....
Continue readingGuiding Light
It’s not always necessary to know exactly where you’re going. Sometimes not knowing leads to unexpected delights and discoveries. Sometimes you set out trying to go one place and you realize you wanted to go somewhere else all along. It took the journey to get you there. But a guiding light helps to keep...
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Sign up for that workshop. Attend that panel discussion. Moderate a fireside chat. Email someone you find interesting. Start conversations. There are so many opportunities to find inspiration. So many chances to see your work from a different perspective. Simply by showing up, listening, observing, or engaging. If your work matters to you seize...
Continue readingWhy Did I Wait So Long?
“Why did I wait so long?” How many times have you done something in your life that when you finally did it prompted you to say that? If you can look at the decisions in your life and frame them in this context what would that mean? What is something you’re deciding on that...
Continue readingThinking Twice
Before you make a decision you might regret. Think twice. Usually our first instinct is muddled by emotion, which can sometimes cause us to behave less than our best. Thinking twice gives us space to consider how we really feel. To weigh pros and cons. And to make a decision that we can feel...
Continue readingIt’s Possible
To just let it go. It feels so bad to be pissed off. To clench your jaw in anger. It builds to a point of frustration but with nowhere to vent it it gets stuck. But you can just choose to let it go. I’m doing it as I write this. Because I don’t...
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