I did some yoga tonight. My mind was very active the whole time. Worrying about the basement renovation. Parenting. Work. So many different thoughts were swirling around in my head. But I kept moving. Kept breathing. Kept listening for the cues. At the end of the class the instructor said something about letting ourselves...
Continue readingAll The Things I Want To Say
Are not the things that will help anything. Or change anything for the better. Or make me feel better. They’re just an attempt at control. When what really needs to happen is letting go. Giving up control. Surrendering to what is and won’t be changed with anger. It’s so hard to do. But if...
Continue readingWhat Do I Need?
I had a sort of epiphany today. I had a tense moment the other night. I was washing dishes and everywhere I turned there was mess. The counters. The food scrap bin. Cheerios on the floor. And I had just cleaned the entire kitchen a couple days earlier. As I scrubbed the dishes I...
Continue readingTouching Lives
I learned of a friends passing today. Life’s events can feel so fleeting. As if we are only tethered to the earth by gravity and nothing else. And without it we may simply float from place to place leaving no roots behind. But that’s not accurate. It isn’t only gravity that holds us. It...
Continue readingMerry Go Round
When I was a kid, maybe seven or eight, I was waiting for my mom to finish grocery shopping. I had been nagging her out of boredom so she sent me outside to wait. Not something I would do with my kids now but it was the 80s in Ohio and perhaps the prospect...
Continue readingWhat Hurts Now Helps Later
When my mom was little she was playing near my grandmother (her mother) while she was ironing clothes. My mom was being nettlesome and kept trying to touch the iron and my grandmother kept telling her no. “You’ll burn yourself.” In spite of the warning my moms little arm kept darting out attempting to...
Continue readingThe Balloon Effect
Life is all about air. Breathing in. Breathing out. In with the much needed oxygen. Out with the toxic carbon dioxide. There’s a reason it feels good to sigh. Kids love balloons. When they’re filled with air they spend countless hours throwing them. Chasing them. Bouncing them. But eventually they deflate and the fun...
Continue readingIt’s All Math After All
I’ve been talking to Lou about feelings lately. And how they are kind of like a math equation. You have a bad feeling or a bad moment, well that’s like a negative sign or subtraction. You’ve taken something away. And you need to add something to make it positive again. So you have to...
Continue readingWhen It’s Loud
Covid changed so many things. Or maybe it just brought about things we had suppressed or that had lain dormant for so long. We experienced fear and isolation. We were stuck inside unable to travel or see friends and family. Suddenly the world felt very small and confining. There was a profound sense of...
Continue readingShine A Light
Forgive me if this post is rambling but it has been ages since I did this. Too long. Maybe it’s the fact that my daughter turned one yesterday. Or that work is crazy. Or that my plate is full. Or I just have a lot of things that have been pent up to say....
Continue reading