Incentives

Forgive me in advance as this is not a fully formed thought. But I’ve given myself five minutes to write and it’s important to me that I flex this muscle tonight. I’ve been letting goals like writing daily slip and I don’t feel good about it. So here we go. How do you incentivize...

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2017-2021

Four years ago today I joined Amazon as a technical recruiter. I started my career as part of the Recruiter Academy Program, which was a four and a half month program designed to teach new recruiters all the ins and outs of recruiting at Amazon. I was making a huge career transition out of...

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Hello Chaos My Old Friend

Everything feels so hard right now. Work. Family. It all feels super charged. One minute I’m riding high. The next I’m feeling desperate and despairing. Things are still not normal. In fact they are more hectic than ever. Humans are just terrible at taking the pressure off even with a backdrop of an ongoing...

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Constraint Breeds

I have five minutes to write something. Anything. I don’t have time to mess around and deliberate and be brilliant. I have to write. In the moment. Five minutes isn’t a lot of time. One of the things I’m experimenting with at work is putting constraints into my day as a forcing mechanism. If...

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To Design Or Not To Design

I built a three tiered raised bed today. I had a general idea of what I wanted to do. Got about what I thought I needed in terms of wood and screws. And I started to build. I made a lot of mistakes. I mis-measured or forgot to measure. I got too little wood....

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To Thrive

I’ve got a 4×4 raised bed in my front yard that is teeming with life. We are growing onions, beets, carrots, cucumber, zucchini, and some beautiful marigolds. This little 4×4 is exploding with growth. I tend to it each day and marvel at how much can happen in such a small space. I water...

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Say It Right

When I was younger people mispronounced my name all the time. See, I have a “t” at the end of my name. People see the m, the a, the r, the g, the o and are like cool we got this – mar-goooooh wtf is that?! Is that a “T?” Who put that there?...

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You Have Until The Coffee Is Done

I haven’t written much lately. Things ache. My thumbs. My soul. So picking up a pen and scratching out my thoughts feels painful and daunting. It’s on my mind constantly. Writing. I have so many ideas and thoughts but they’re not making it to the page. My book writing has come to a halt....

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