That’s how life we will. We set ourselves up for failure and disappointment expecting things to be perfect. To work every time. To be smooth and worry free.
It’s going to be bumpy. It’s going to be wonderful and tragic. It will continually be a surprise and a challenge and a joy.
If we expect one thing we will get another. The goal isn’t to stop dreaming or praying or wishing or striving. It’s just to go easy on ourselves and to know that always imperfect is about as perfect as this life can get.